Today it’s time to move on to the next place of residence
with my friend in Downtown Los Angeles. However, first, I’m off to meet a girlfriend in
Manhattan Beach. While en route I lead a successful conference call which is
full of progress and excellent feedback. Then I arrive earlier at my coffee
date, so I decide to write some notes as there are mailboxes 5 feet
from my car. Its right there, so why not make use of the time. I love sending people cards that are little surprises that make them smile.
Earlier in the morning I had challenged myself to reach out
to nine random people from my phone book that I haven’t spoken too just to
catch up. At first I wondered why I wanted to do something like that, but then
I just started dialing. First person I called actually answered the phone, I
hadn’t spoken to her in quite a few months, and it was so nice to just touch
base and catch up about what’s going on in our lives. Well apparently, she was
in a transition period and looking to get into a new career path in the food
industry. Funny, because the next thing you know, I’m at my computer reading an
email about an event that’s all for the food industry and in NYC where she
lives. So of course I send it her way, and maybe it will be of use, or maybe it
won’t. I just find it interesting how that opportunity popped up, and had I not
called that email would have ended up immediately in the trash.
As, I continue to make my calls, I have all sorts of self
talk about why these people that I call friends wouldn't want to talk to me, or maybe I don’t really want to talk
to them, but remember this was a challenge so I continue. I end up calling
people I normally wouldn’t, and by the time I’m talking or leaving a voicemail,
I’m super excited and curious about what’s going on in their lives. I mean
normally it’s all about me, my closest friends, and business. So it’s really
nice to step outside the circle, and reach out to people that I don’t normally
talk to. I should be talking with them more than once a year right vs purely
through Facebook right??!?! In fact calling these random people actually
brightened my day and gave me energy.
LESSON OF THE DAY: If
people hold real estate in my phone book, they are important to me and calling
them isn’t scary it actually pumps me up full of vibrant energy.

You've posted an interesting thought. I've gone through my cell phone book and called people while on a long journey -- yes, I use a headset phone -- and it's great to catch up with people I haven't spoken to in quite a while. While there is no way to know if your friend in NY will appreciate or be able to use the information you sent her, I dare say you've probably increased the chances that she'll send something your way that might be of interest to you.
ReplyDeleteOoooooh! I like that perspective as well Gary, thank you for commenting.
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