On the road again! I left Marin County inspired as I headed
to LA, after spending a couple hours with some good friends that had made waves of accomplishments in their lives thus far. Sometimes just being in the presence of sucess is
motivation in itself. If they can do it, I can do it… right?!?!
Immediately out of the gates I had 2 scheduled phone
conversations, one with my small group leader from a program I’m involved in,
and another with a complete stranger I had been introduced to, and let me tell
you, when you have nothing else to do, but be present and listen, it’s
amazing what can happen from that stance.
Let’s start with the small group leader. It was an efficient
10 minute phone conversation in which I discovered that my need to be
independent, and not receive support from others was purely protecting my Ego which
stemmed from the fact that my Mother was a stay at home Mom that didn't work (she did end up creating a job for herself eventually after we were out of the house) and of course that I’m a little rebellious.
Although, I want children of my own, I
have a constant battle between accomplishing my career, and receiving which could
potentially be dependent on someone. As
I want a supportive and giving relationship soooo badly, I have been continuing
to fine tune this internal dialogue which only leads me to resist relationships
and support from others. We discovered during the call that I need to end the
fight against receiving, as at the end of the day, there is no reason for it and
that “self induced” program I have set for myself is not serving me. Wowza! It’s amazing what you
can learn in 10 minutes about yourself.
My next call was also stimulating as it was with someone I
had never spoken to before which was supposed to be purely about our consulting
business, but it lead to a potential book, and me writing this blog on my 60 day
move to LA. They were so motivated by my
most recent actions in life that they insisted I write about it, as they were
ready to read it. Another Wowza! I was unintentionally motivating others and
potentially great things were coming from it!
I then continued the drive listening to my Ted Talks about
leadership, Lean In with Sheryl Sandberg (a book I intend to read as it’s
obviously my personal dilemma), the exciting entrepreneur Elon Musk, as well as
talks on individuality, identities, and creativity. This was the perfect concoction
as I continue learning about myself and what I’m up to in life.
LESSON OF THE DAY: When I am open and present for a
conversation,
light bulb moments shine through even during a quick 10 minute chat.

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